I don't think it's going overboard, though, to state one very possible and very likely scenario, and that is that this girl may likely be completely indoctrinated and believing. If this is the case, she definitely can be reprogrammed and awakened. I look at my single male doctor colleagues and some of them are sweet and honestly looking for a connection. I respect what my husband does but I have nothing but my pets and a dusty Ivy Leaguedegree. We all wondered why should would go against such a blessing. How could I help a non-Mormon spouse to feel like a member of my ward family when he is not a member of my church.
I like to think that what you said really resonated with her. Some Mormon girls succumb to worldly laziness. I let her know I'd been reading on LDS.
It MAY be true that she will not marry him unless he converts. Try to have a date night once a week and when your Dr Spouse has time off go somewhere. I think she felt that it was important for me to understand the types of challenges in an interfaith marriage. Religion is super important to LDS people but there's also alot of exmormons. There is no way this will work out. Let's talk about kids. I believe that there will be a lot more mercy than justice being dished out at the judgment. And that my friend, is just a hint of the extent of the brain wash that Mormons experience. He would not appreciate my sacrifice of course, because they are often very self-center mind. There have been times in my marriage where I have been frustrated and angry by his lack of change.
Btw, you bringing up CES letter shit before thanksgiving will guarantee a very awkward time with the GF and probably the family for the day. I miss my husband dearly. Single women who are educated, regardless of religion, are also going to find similar gender imbalances among their educated peers nowadays. Everyone has their own sins and impure thoughts they need to overcome. Whenever you bring something up, they'll say if it's not on lds. Did you know Joseph smith married the wives of other living men. You won't know this until you do it and that is really important information to get before a marriage contract. If your spouse believes in infant baptism, will you allow the children to have that. Good advice for "newbie" docs and spouses. So, guess whatв We stopped.